[current_date format=l,] [current_date]

Dating Dilemma: Should You Listen To Dating Apps or Your Parents?

Exploring the limits of parental advice and the extensions of dating app algorithms in relationships Teenagers and young people are caught in a fix these days. On one hand, they want to explore the depths of their sexuality and meet people with which to do so. On the other hand, parental guidance seems to restrict from enjoying the freedom they need to do so. Little do they know that parents also go through the same dilemma. On one hand, they want to respect their kids’ privacy and independence. On the other, they want to shield them from the dangers and bad decisions inherent in a dating relationship. However, with the introduction of dating apps, things might prove thornier for both sides. Japan could be the site of a brewing

Exploring the limits of parental advice and the extensions of dating app algorithms in relationships

Teenagers and young people are caught in a fix these days. On one hand, they want to explore the depths of their sexuality and meet people with which to do so. On the other hand, parental guidance seems to restrict from enjoying the freedom they need to do so.

Little do they know that parents also go through the same dilemma. On one hand, they want to respect their kids’ privacy and independence. On the other, they want to shield them from the dangers and bad decisions inherent in a dating relationship. However, with the introduction of dating apps, things might prove thornier for both sides.

Japan could be the site of a brewing cultural storm as young adults are now caught between the algorithm and their parents. The Japanese government, in a “creative” attempt to tackle the country’s falling birth rate plans is to launch a unique dating app called “Tokyo Futari Story”. This comes after birth rates hit an all time low in 2023, with matchmaking events proving virtually ineffective in dealing with the downward spiral.

What are Dating Apps All About?

Dating apps can be said to be software applications fashioned to generate connections between individuals who are interested in romance, casual sex or relationships. They typically operate through algorithms based on factors like, age, gender of users and that of desired partners, and locations.

Online dating apps sell customers’ the idea that finding a match is guaranteed. Online dating services provide several benefits that users can exploit, which further entices more singles to download the app, increasing its popularity. Conversely, users also have to deal with the damning downsides of online dating.

Why are Dating Apps The New Cupid?

Dating apps are designed specifically for busy people who don’t have a lot of time to actively search for love. These apps are convenient because one can use them anywhere, anytime. Users can be flexible with their preferences for a match, weeding out other users who do not meet their requirements.

Dating apps even use algorithms to match users who gave similar interests together, saving them the effort of finding them on their own. With dating apps, individuals can skip the whole process of finding like-minded people and jump right into connecting with potential matches.

Furthermore, online dating empowers users to be in total control of how they want to be presented to the public. Users can craft profiles that highlight their strengths, as well as the key aspects of their personalities they want people to know about. Also, they can establish their expectations concerning the relationships upfront.

The Other Side of Dating Apps

Deception is one major concern in the online dating space. Users can easily lie about anything from height to interests. Malicious actors can use fake profiles to catfish unsuspecting individuals.

These deceptions can negatively impact mental health. Users may experience anxiety, depression, and lowered self-esteem due to exposure to predators’ lies or constant competition. The pressure to appear attractive can also lead to a decline in self-acceptance and a reliance on manipulation in bios.

Also, dating apps can be breeding grounds for discrimination. Users may encounter racist or otherwise offensive language in profiles, creating a hostile environment for marginalized groups.

The Limits of The Algorithm

Despite their allure, dating app algorithms have inherent limitations. One, they fail to capture the complexities of human connection. Algorithms rely on data points and user preferences, leaving their users bereft of true chemistry and emotional connection.

Again, algorithms can perpetuate biases. Unconscious biases, whether related to race, ethnicity, or even height preferences, can become ingrained in these algorithms, limiting the pool of potential partners users encounter. This creates a feedback loop, where users are shown profiles that reinforce their existing preferences.

Dating apps can ironically work against achieving lasting love. The constant barrage of profiles and the gamified nature of swiping can encourage a superficial approach to dating. Dating apps are known to foster environment that smother true emotional connections.

Parental Advice, Traditional Lifestyle and The Value of Human Relationships

Parents offer a unique perspective on love. Years of knowing their children allow them to identify potential partners who share their values. They prioritize long-term compatibility, unlike dating apps that can cultivate casual encounters. Parents can also leverage their social circles for introductions, providing a built-in vetting process.

The key is balance. Dating apps can expand your social circle, but parental guidance should not be ignored. Their wisdom, based on experience, offers valuable insights. Dating apps tend to prioritize quantity over quality connections. True love thrives on genuine human connection, something algorithms and metrics cannot teach.

Whether Tokyo Futari Story proves effective in the long run remains to be seen. While the app offers a convenient platform for singles to meet, the cultural shift towards online dating is still ongoing. This means its social acceptance might be a hurdle for the app’s widespread adoption. Only time will tell whether the Tokyo Futari Story will be a precursor to a Japanese baby boom or not.


More on this topic

More Stories

Refreshing and Insights
at No Cost to You!

Cancel anytime

Latest Articles

Leave a Reply


Top Products

Contact us

Wherever & whenever you are,
we are here always.

The Middle Land

100 Wilshire Blvd., Suite 700 Santa Monica, CA 90401
Footer Contact

To Editor

Terms and Conditions

October, 2023

Using our website

You may use the The Middle Land website subject to the Terms and Conditions set out on this page. Visit this page regularly to check the latest Terms and Conditions. Access and use of this site constitutes your acceptance of the Terms and Conditions in-force at the time of use.

Intellectual property

Names, images and logos displayed on this site that identify The Middle Land are the intellectual property of New San Cai Inc. Copying any of this material is not permitted without prior written approval from the owner of the relevant intellectual property rights.

Requests for such approval should be directed to the competition committee.

Please provide details of your intended use of the relevant material and include your contact details including name, address, telephone number, fax number and email.

Linking policy

You do not have to ask permission to link directly to pages hosted on this website. However, we do not permit our pages to be loaded directly into frames on your website. Our pages must load into the user’s entire window.

The Middle Land is not responsible for the contents or reliability of any site to which it is hyperlinked and does not necessarily endorse the views expressed within them. Linking to or from this site should not be taken as endorsement of any kind. We cannot guarantee that these links will work all the time and have no control over the availability of the linked pages.


All information, data, text, graphics or any other materials whatsoever uploaded or transmitted by you is your sole responsibility. This means that you are entirely responsible for all content you upload, post, email or otherwise transmit to the The Middle Land website.

Virus protection

We make every effort to check and test material at all stages of production. It is always recommended to run an anti-virus program on all material downloaded from the Internet. We cannot accept any responsibility for any loss, disruption or damage to your data or computer system, which may occur while using material derived from this website.


The website is provided ‘as is’, without any representation or endorsement made, and without warranty of any kind whether express or implied.

Your use of any information or materials on this website is entirely at your own risk, for which we shall not be liable. It is your responsibility to ensure any products, services or information available through this website meet your specific requirements.

We do not warrant the operation of this site will be uninterrupted or error free, that defects will be corrected, or that this site or the server that makes it available are free of viruses or represent the full functionality, accuracy and reliability of the materials. In no event will we be liable for any loss or damage including, without limitation, loss of profits, indirect or consequential loss or damage, or any loss or damages whatsoever arising from the use, or loss of data, arising out of – or in connection with – the use of this website.

Privacy & Cookie Policy

October, 2023

Last Updated: October 1, 2023

New San Cai Inc. (hereinafter “The Middle Land,” “we,” “us,” or “our”) owns and operates www.themiddleland.com, its affiliated websites and applications (our “Sites”), and provides related products, services, newsletters, and other offerings (together with the Sites, our “Services”) to art lovers and visitors around the world.

This Privacy Policy (the “Policy”) is intended to provide you with information on how we collect, use, and share your personal data. We process personal data from visitors of our Sites, users of our Services, readers or bloggers (collectively, “you” or “your”). Personal data is any information about you. This Policy also describes your choices regarding use, access, and correction of your personal information.

If after reading this Policy you have additional questions or would like further information, please contact us.


We collect and process personal data only for lawful reasons, such as our legitimate business interests, your consent, or to fulfill our legal or contractual obligations.

Information You Provide to Us

Most of the information Join Talents collects is provided by you voluntarily while using our Services. We do not request highly sensitive data, such as health or medical information, racial or ethnic origin, political opinions, religious or philosophical beliefs, trade union membership, etc. and we ask that you refrain from sending us any such information.

Here are the types of personal data that you voluntarily provide to us:

  • Name, email address, and any other contact information that you provide by filling out your profile forms
  • Billing information, such as credit card number and billing address
  • Work or professional information, such as your company or job title
  • Unique identifiers, such as username or password
  • Demographic information, such as age, education, interests, and ZIP code
  • Details of transactions and preferences from your use of the Services
  • Correspondence with other users or business that you send through our Services, as well as correspondence sent to JoinTalents.com

As a registered users or customers, you may ask us to review or retrieve emails sent to your business. We will access these emails to provide these services for you.

We use the personal data you provide to us for the following business purposes:

  • Set up and administer your account
  • Provide and improve the Services, including displaying content based on your previous transactions and preferences
  • Answer your inquiries and provide customer service
  • Send you marketing communications about our Services, including our newsletters (please see the Your Rights/Opt Out section below for how to opt out of marketing communications)
  • Communicate with users who registered their accounts on our site
  • Prevent, discover, and investigate fraud, criminal activity, or violations of our Terms and Conditions
  • Administer contests and events you entered

Information Obtained from Third-Party Sources

We collect and publish biographical and other information about users, which we use to promote the articles and our bloggers  who use our sites. If you provide personal information about others, or if others give us your information, we will only use that information for the specific reason for which it was provided.

Information We Collect by Automated Means

Log Files

The site uses your IP address to help diagnose server problems, and to administer our website. We use your IP addresses to analyze trends and gather broad demographic information for aggregate use.

Every time you access our Site, some data is temporarily stored and processed in a log file, such as your IP addresses, the browser types, the operating systems, the recalled page, or the date and time of the recall. This data is only evaluated for statistical purposes, such as to help us diagnose problems with our servers, to administer our sites, or to improve our Services.

Do Not Track

Your browser or device may include “Do Not Track” functionality. Our information collection and disclosure practices, and the choices that we provide to customers, will continue to operate as described in this Privacy Policy, whether or not a “Do Not Track” signal is received.


We may share your personal data with third parties only in the ways that are described in this Privacy Policy. We do not sell, rent, or lease your personal data to third parties, and We does not transfer your personal data to third parties for their direct marketing purposes.

We may share your personal data with third parties as follows:

  • With service providers under contract to help provide the Services and assist us with our business operations (such as our direct marketing, payment processing, fraud investigations, bill collection, affiliate and rewards programs)
  • As required by law, such as to comply with a subpoena, or similar legal process, including to meet national security or law enforcement requirements
  • When we believe in good faith that disclosure is necessary to protect rights or safety, investigate fraud, or respond to a government request
  • With other users of the Services that you interact with to help you complete a transaction

There may be other instances where we share your personal data with third parties based on your consent.


We retain your information for as long as your account is active or as needed to provide you Services. If you wish to cancel your account or request that we no longer use your personal data, contact us. We will retain and use your personal data as necessary to comply with legal obligations, resolve disputes, and enforce our agreements.

All you and our data are stored in the server in the United States, we do not sales or transfer your personal data to the third party. All information you provide is stored on a secure server, and we generally accepted industry standards to protect the personal data we process both during transmission and once received.


You may correct, update, amend, delete/remove, or deactivate your account and personal data by making the change on your Blog on www.themiddleland.com or by emailing our customer service. We will respond to your request within a reasonable timeframe.

You may choose to stop receiving Join Talents newsletters or marketing emails at any time by following the unsubscribe instructions included in those communications, or you can contact us.


The Middle Land include links to other websites whose privacy practices may differ from that of ours. If you submit personal data to any of those sites, your information is governed by their privacy statements. We encourage you to carefully read the Privacy Policy of any website you visit.


Our Services are not intended for use by children, and we do not knowingly or intentionally solicit data from or market to children under the age of 18. We reserve the right to delete the child’s information and the child’s registration on the Sites.


We may update this Privacy Policy to reflect changes to our personal data processing practices. If any material changes are made, we will notify you on the Sites prior to the change becoming effective. You are encouraged to periodically review this Policy.


If you have any questions about our Privacy Policy, please contact customer service or send us mail at:

The Middle Land/New San Cai
100 Wilshire Blvd., 7th Floor
Santa Monica, CA 90401

Article Submission


Are you sure? Do you want to logout of the account?

New Programs Added to Your Plan

March 2, 2023

The Michelin brothers created the guide, which included information like maps, car mechanics listings, hotels and petrol stations across France to spur demand.

The guide began to award stars to fine dining restaurants in 1926.

At first, they offered just one star, the concept was expanded in 1931 to include one, two and three stars. One star establishments represent a “very good restaurant in its category”. Two honour “excellent cooking, worth a detour” and three reward “exceptional cuisine, worth a


February 28, 2023        Hiring Journalists all hands apply

January 18, 2023          Hiring Journalists all hands apply


Leave a Reply

Forgot Password ?

Please enter your email id or user name to
recover your password

Thank you for your participation!
Back to Home
Thank you for your subscription!
Please check your email to activate your account.
Back to Home
Thank you for your participation!
Please check your email for the results.
Back to Home

Login to Vote!

Thank you for your participation,
please Log in or Sign up to Vote

Thank you for your Comment

Back to Home

Reply To:

New Programs Added to Your Plan

Login Now

123Sign in to your account